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I know i havent blogged since thursday but i havent been in the mood lol But things are going good yesterday i hung out with jessica (we went to the boys & girls club and later went to the store and i got my christmas gift stuff (instead of candy necklaces i got gum cause i went to a diff store than i wnated to and the candy necklaces there were too expensive for me..85cents intead of the 25 i thought they were(i also got mars bars and more expensive gum cause jess wnated it, but i am also getting here sumthing eles to) and we also got some jones cream soda..they come in glass bottles so it looks like alcohol lol But dont worry, i dont drink lol But anwyays, today i didnt really do anything sept go to piano lessons (got the songs i was having trouble on perfect) and watched mean girls for the first time (im the only girl i know that hasnt seen it b4, and i just saw it for the first time!!) and i honesly really liked it But it stirs up an interesting topic, which i must discuss below...

Anyways, i havent actually done a "serious blog"(as i like to call it) in a long time..since November 20th. And i figure its about time i do another one. The subject: cliques and Gossiping. Ill start with gossiping: everybody does it. Everyone. Have u ever said to someone "o i hate ______ shes a stoner/ shes a bitch/ shes a whore?" u can deny it all u want but i bet u have..about teachers, about other kids, about ur parents...whoever. Uve done it before and so have i. But u gotta admit, there are thin lines btween diff. things. Like for instance, if someone says something about u, ur friend or boyfriend/girlfriend, and u tell someone about it, the way u tell someone it can be taken as 1.talking about y ur mad 2. gossiping 3. trying to get alot of people to hate that person. It all depends on how u say it. If u say "omg that whore______ is F***ING bitch shes F***ing spreading rumours about me!!" then obviously ur not the only victim in that situation..so is the person thst ur talking about to. So u just gotta think about how u say things..if u wooda said "omg sumone (and u dont mention names) s spreading rumours about me " then thats not bad. But i guess u cant always avoid that kinda stuff. Eventually somethings going to come out. But i guess u just gotta make sure its not sumthing u cant undo. So my point is always think b4 u say stuff..cause it could come back on u.

Now onto cliques. In mean girls they had a whole bunch of cliques. the main one: the "plastics"..which were a bunch of popular mean girls who everbody hates yet looks up to (weird huh?). In highschool the main cliques are:

Emo/goths

Popular

Geeks

Stoners

Sluts

Preps

Jocks

Stalkers

Kids who get aressted

Kids in bands

Alot people belong 2 more than 1 group. Once i get my hair died and go shopping next weekend, i know im going to be officially into the "emo/goth" category, because my hair is going to be black+red and i only like dark clothes. But im kinda also in the "geek" section to, because im good at, and like school. The really odd thing though is that i have friends in almost every single category. But my question is: y are labels so important?? Honestly, in 10 years everyones going to go differnet ways and labels will be a thing of the past. Some of your friends u have now u mite not even be talking to them. I guess cliques are a teenage thing, and i guess thats y growing up can be so hard at times, but u just gotta always remeber to do the right thing...

So yea lol i guess thats the end of that disscussion. I just thought it needed to be said, but regardless, tomorrow morning im going to wake up and say to myslef "y did i write this?? people are going to think im a weird loser" lol. But o well. Its one of those things i think about and keep in mind at all time. In fact just b4 i started righting this blog i signed onto msn and someone said to me that someone (who i am very close to) was dirty (but no offence this person said!!). I could of taken this situation several different ways..i coulda bitched at this person and told sumone eles, ignored this person and told sumone eles, etc. I decided to block this person because i honestly am trying to completly shut him/her outta my life. he/she has done some cruel things to me in the past and ive been trying to forget those things but obviously things arent going to change and im not going to put up with it. I also decided to not tell anyone on msn, or use this persons name in this blog because then i cannot be blammed for spreading rumours about him/her. so yea.

Just thought i mite say sumthing about that.

- Kristal